“They Call Me The Seeker” – Seeking Answers to Life’s Questions

* “They Call Me The Seeker” – Seeking Answers to Life’s Questions – ORIGINALLY PUBLISHED DECEMBER 2, 2020*

Opening Up

I’m going to be open and honest with all of you:
I’m usually more concerned and worried about others than myself. I worry about my students. But I have to understand that I’m doing everything that I can to make virtual learning non-stressful for them. I need to tell myself “The Kids Are Alright.” 

But what about me? Am I alright?

I’ve been having to go to the dentist lately because my TMJ is acting up pretty severely. It turns out I’m grinding my teeth and clenching my jaw really bad at night. I’ve been on a soft food diet for over 2 weeks. Luckily, Reese’s Peanut Butter Cups, as well as wine, are “soft foods.” Now I’m getting a night guard made to wear when I go to bed to prevent the grinding. The dentist said it is probably stress-driven and made a remark that maybe during summer break I won’t need it anymore. Funny, and yet not funny at the same time.

I’ve been practicing so many mindfulness and mindset techniques to help with stress and anxiety that I face during the day. But how do I take control of it when I’m asleep?

Now Spinning: 
The Who – Meaty Beaty Big And Bouncy

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“I’m looking for me
You’re looking for you
We’re looking in at each other
And we don’t know what to do”
lyrics from “The Seeker”
Songwriter: Peter Townshend 

I thought this album was perfect to spin tonight for a few reasons. One being that there are so many amazing “The Who” hits compiled here. This is one that I can listen to straight through from beginning to end without skipping a track. If you recall, a couple evenings ago I played music and I focused on the instruments and melody. But tonight I’m focusing on lyrics. 

“The Seeker” really resonates with me this evening. It is crazy how music and lyrics work. I can listen to a song and it can mean one thing to me. But then you can go ahead and listen to the same song and you take it to mean something completely different. Only the songwriters know the TRUE meaning of each song they create. However, does that make our own different interpretations wrong? If we asked them, I don’t think they would think so. That’s the beautiful thing about art. Paintings are art that reaches our souls through our eyes. Music is art that reaches our souls through our ears.

I’m interpreting this song this evening as seeking things that are out of our reach. Things that no one else can help us find. Seeking answers to life’s questions. This evening I’m seeking answers that only I can find for myself. I obviously need to figure out on a subconscious level what needs to be done to stop grinding my teeth at night. I need to figure out how to keep my energy shield up while I’m asleep…how to keep it up subconsciously. I’m seeking restful nights of sound sleep in bed where I’m not waking up at 3:30am daily with a clenched jaw.

I looked up some meditation videos on YouTube specifically for grinding teeth and found a few that are long enough that I should fall asleep before it ending. This is what I think I need. Maybe this will help me get some clarity subconsciously. 

Have you tried any meditation videos before for sleep? If so, please share your experiences in the comments as well as links if they are available! 

I will keep you posted on my bedtime meditations. So stick around on my blogging journey! We can all work together to achieve ultimate mental wellness.